"Why does this always happen to me?"

You know how you experience a situation over and over and over again in your life?

You keep fighting in that situation and nothing ever seems to change. Or the same types of problems pop up in your life over and over again.

It seems endless, I know. I’ve personally struggled with money and relationships. It seems like you’re in a constant loop, and can’t break free.

Well, I actually don’t think there’s a breakthrough. No big “aha” moment. There’s no perfect solution, ever.

What happens is that you start to do personal development work on yourself, no matter what. When you step into the waters of breaking a cycle, you begin to fight for a new way to be. Eventually, you just get too tired of fighting the old cycles because it's really heavy to carry the weight of those struggles and make space for new ones.

That’s what happens, you work on yourself & you keep doing that until you get too tired to have these continuous, repetitive dramas in your life. Eventually, you realize the loop you’re in and eventually, you get tired of it. You just... give up. You stop trying to make it all work and focus only on the things that give you energy and lift you up. You give up fighting the old dramas and loops, because it’s too tiring to spend time on anything else other than what makes you feel alive.

That’s how you stop the cycle. You get so tired, you have to let go of what you can’t carry. Whatever that may look like in your life.. you just get too tired to keep holding it all together. Then the magic happens. Moving on, breaking a cycle in your life, will look and feel just like that.. breaking. I promise you that it may feel like things are broken, but really, you are breaking free. Free from one way of being, free from a constant struggle in a never-ending cycle. Free to take on a new mindset, lifestyle, or whatever is that you are trying to move forward towards.

Need support, someone to talk to, or want to know more about breaking out of cycles? Send me an email & I'm happy to chat.

With love, Kari